The Journey

Salt and Light. Two Very Interesting Metaphors for the Kingdom #SOTM2013

This morning we talked through the section in Matthew 5 concerning Salt and Light.  

¹³ “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.

¹⁴ “You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. ¹⁵ Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. ¹⁶ In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.

Interestingly enough, there were questions concerning our response to 'being' salt and light in the world.  Is this a section where Jesus is asking those who follow Him to stand out and be different, OR; is this a reminder that the Kingdom of God is just going to look different from the Kingdom of the world.  

Yesterday I saw an article on a Valedictorian that "Stood up for His Faith."  CLICK FOR ARTICLE HERE.  Evidently Roy Costner IV decided to tear up his pre-approved valedictorian speech and recite the Lord's Prayer  in spite of the rules the school board adopted for separation of school and religion.  

There were cheers all through the Christian community as this bold young man took a stand in the face of adversity, but is this really what our gospel has come to?

I understand the need to express your faith in places where people need hope.  
I understand the passion of youth to raise an issue of importance.
I even get the bigger picture of the way faith is slowly being eradicated from the public school system.  

But in the end, this story begs the question, "What was Mr. Costner's End Goal?"

Was it to declare his faith in the face of adversity?
Was it to change the policy of the school board concerning prayers?
Was it to show the students in his class how important faith was?

Who knows?

But one thing I do know, there are a lot of people who want to stand up and be counted for their faith for their own personal agenda.  I would wonder if the end game in being salt and light is being a stanchion for God, OR; is it to be so attractive in the face of a hopeless world, there's just something different about the way we live?

We had a GREAT conversation this morning about striking the balance between the two.  I'd love to know what you think...

 

Interesting Morning #SOTM2013

With 20 twenty somethings gathered in our old barn, we started our trek through the Sermon on the Mount with "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for Righteousness sake, for they shall be filled."  

We spent some time talking about the implications of being hungry for satisfaction, and most of us agreed, we spend entirely too much time and energy trying to satisfy the hunger for rest with things that don't help.  Money, Success, Validation, Love; all good things in and of themselves, but when they become the "go to" places where we seek rest, we've forgotten.

All of us know wealthy people who long for satisfaction.  
There were stories of CEO's of Fortune 500 companies looking for validation.
And when we started talking about the notion of marriage, it was interesting to see how many thought once you get married, life will just start to spin in the right direction.  

Jesus' proclamation here is grandiose in scale.  Certainly, those who long for the world to spin right will see that it is going to spin right someday.  Jesus came so that God's beginning work of reconciling all things to Himself may begin.  But on a micro level, those things we look to for satisfaction serve only to satisfy for a short time.  We all have a longing to be filled.  We all were created with a sense of the world being a "right" place.  

We want a world void of death.
We work diligently to relieve the human condition from disease.
We have places of conflict resolution in hopes we can make Peace.

But all those things are only temporary.  
The only true Peace in our souls, and in the world for that matter; is going to come when God makes All Things New Again.  

It was an interesting morning.  We skipped down through the rest of the sermon and have committed to have the rest memorized by tomorrow.  

If you're on the Journey with us, we're now through Matthew 5:3-12.  

 

Mourning and Meekness. What does this have to do with God's Kingdom?

This morning I continued our journey through the Sermon on the Mount.  (Matthew 5,6, and 7).  We began the conversation with "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted."  

When Jesus proclaims the Kingdom of God through his Sermon on the Mount Discourse, those that Mourn take a special place in the list.  We started this morning with an ask, "What is the mourning He is referring to?"

Micro-
As Jesus shows His interest in the personal lives of those He encounters, there's no way to divorce the microcosmic view of mourning from our individual pain.  Could He mean that pain in our world concerning death, disease, divorce, displaced; could all those things be the tragedy that causes mourning individually?  

Of course if you look at the whole narrative of Jesus, His very presence lifts those in the darkest hours of night to a place of hope and calm.  

Macro-
There's also a bigger picture.  What if Jesus referred to the grave injustice we all know shrouds the world's population today. Orphans will be comforted as they will know they are valuable again.  Those going through times of disease will be healed of those things we know we can address because of poverty or cultures looking the other way.  

Those that mourn will be comforted.  Jesus said it, I want it!

And then we dove in head first to figure out what Meekness meant.  Jesus states, "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth."

First of all we need to understand the heavenly way of the Jew of Jesus day was to dwell in the end here on earth.  There wasn't a heaven OUT THERE, but rather; the Jew of Jesus day was looking for the Kingdom of God right here on planet earth.

So Jesus is bringing to our attention a reward for an attitude that is counter cultural.  

When we have the ability to do, but seek to reign that ability to control, we become Meek.  I think of strong personalities I've met along life's highway who constantly prove a deep humility to bless those around them instead of claiming what could be rightfully theirs.  It's an attractive quality to watch meek people function in the world.  It's certainly not the way of the world, and Jesus declared it part of a counter cultural Kingdom.  

The Mourning will be Comforted.
The Meek will inherit the Earth.

This is turning out to be quite a challenge for those of us who want to follow Jesus.   

 

What do we do with the Poor In Spirit? #SOTM2013

Blessed are the Poor in Spirit for Theirs is the Kingdom of God - Jesus

The first of the Be-Attitudes section of the sermon on the mount describes the "poor in spirit."  When asked this morning, I employed our staff to think about what the word Blessed Meant, and what the phrase "poor in Spirit" refers to.  The Kingdom of God is an obvious win for anyone walking the faith journey, so it begs us to discover the meaning.

Remember, this is the passage in Matthew 5 directly following the section where Jesus heals the sick from all nations.  He actually sets out to bring all people together, "proclaiming the Kingdom of God."  Interestingly enough, there were blue collar workers, white collar workers, academics, suburbanites, and religious people all watching Jesus with wonder.  

When he begins teaching on the hill overlooking the Sea of Galilee on the shores of Tiberius, Jesus opens the proclamation with "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of God."  

WHAT A REVOLUTION!!

Till this time, it was only the rich in spirit who ever had a chance to peek into the eternal wonderment of God's Ultimate Destination.  Those who were down and out, were literally spiritually bankrupt with no hope of ever climbing out of their despair, when finally Jesus declares there is Hope.  There's hope for the hopeless.  There's a way out.  There's a place where no matter what you've done or where you've been, there's a place at God's table.  

We spent an hour wading through the different ideas about Jesus' proclamation.  What say you?

What do we do with the Poor In Spirit? #SOTM2013

The First Day of Adventure #SOTM2013 (with podcast)

This summer I committed to helping re-shape the message of Jesus.  This morning 60 University Students met inside this Barn to discuss, work out, and understand together Jesus' declaration of the Kingdom of God.  

We started at the end of chapter 4 when it says, "²³ Jesus went throughout Galilee, teaching in their synagogues, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom, and healing every disease and sickness among the people. ²⁴ News about him spread all over Syria, and people brought to him all who were ill with various diseases, those suffering severe pain, the demon-possessed, those having seizures, and the paralyzed; and he healed them. ²⁵ Large crowds from Galilee, the Decapolis, Jerusalem, Judea and the region across the Jordan followed him."

The Lesson for Today:

• Jesus healed people from all walks of life
• Jesus proclaimed the good news of the kingdom while He healed
• Jesus taught people from Galilee (blue collar folks), The Decapolis (the intelligentsia), Jerusalem (the religious center), Judea (the suburbs), and the region across the Jordan (everyone else.)
• The proclamation of the Kingdom isn't simply for a certain group, but for everyone willing to listen.  

It was amazing to watch University students simmer on the idea the gospel is intended for everyone. I was surprised to see this idea not the normative culture in today's postmodern world, but human nature is what it is.  

The Gospel is not simply for those who think like us, talk like us, worship like us, or live like us.  This umbrella is intended to extend far and wide.  And when we take time to think about it, it's a pretty uncomfortable scenario.  If we're honest, we want to figure out how we can get ahead, perform better than someone else, divide to isolation, and naturally group into our own version of Gospel.

But Jesus came to set us free from the notion of thinking that there's some division among the Good News.  The Good News is for ALL, no matter where you come from, where you're at, or where you're going.  What a revolutionary idea!!

First Lesson #SOTM2013

 

A Dedication to Discovery

There's nothing like taking a group of teenagers down a white water river for the first time.  The fear coupled with the excitement of adventure helps to build a foundation where everyday is one left up to those who are explorers, and Exploration is a plays a vital role in happiness.  

Last night I spoke to a leadership team in Colorado, and I invited them to a place where daily discovery is a prominent value in life.  I believe when we look at the world as something to be discovered, rather than some rote every day turn of events; the beauty of creation jumps into life and allows us a surprise at every turn.  

Just like the raging rapids of the river change with the different water flow, we have a chance to take every moment as one to enjoy and dwell.  We have a chance to learn new ideas, understand different people, and know about new things we've not known before.  To be a person dedicated to discovery is to be someone looking out for a fresh new story to tell, and in the stories come bonds of trust.  

A dedication to discovery is an important value to take with you, and this week, I'm on the journeyman's road to live a life full of exploration.  I can't wait to report what I find.  

A Day Not Promised

I'm sitting in the Southwest Corner of Colorado watching the storms ravish the Mid-West.  My heart is heavy for the families enduring this fearful weather pattern, as they never know when the next one is going to hit.  

I've watched the news of hundreds who have lost everything, only to wonder why I've been spared.  I'm sure I know today wasn't promised to me, and there's no guarantees tomorrow will arrive as it did today.  

So on this humble Journey of understanding, praying, mourning, and wonder; I'm thinking of my friends in Oklahoma.  I'm thankful for another day not promised, and grateful I've been given air to breathe.  

Today I return to a spirit of Thankfulness.  

Is America Ready "No god?"

Fifteen Years Ago I warned a group of evangelicals working with teenagers to "Rest Assured" America is only a few years behind Europe when it comes to Religion issues.  Magnificent churches built centuries ago were empty as culture decided there was another way to live out truth.  

Well, a recent article published at CNN.com Belief Blog is proving my prophetic voice.  The article is titled, "America Losing It's Religion," and points out more than 3 in 4 people say religion is loosing it's influence on America.  

Ten years ago when I started exploring the idea of re-imagining the Christian worldview, I spent some time studying the faith movement history throughout Europe.  I watched as the cradle of the western faith movement turn dark and cold as the neo-atheists began touting life without god.  So, here we are.  Living in an America now that sees God as something of a fairy tale.  

Believe me, I'm surely not someone who wants to climb the mountain tops of America and scream, "Let's take the country back for God."  I'm not even sure how God might feel about wanting to take back American anyway.  But I AM concerned with the fallout of religious tradition.  Although the history of religion might bring a negativity to conversation, I believe the hope faith brings to life is important.  After all, we're not simply a conglomeration of biology, are we?   

The word "religion" has a negative connotation among believers today.   It brings back memories of those who lived in a legalistic world adhering to certain traditional laws that were less than honest.  Churches popping up all over America called 'Fellowship,' 'The Village,' even 'Mars Hill' are all trying to live out the scripture.   At the same time they are leaving the word 'religion' and replacing old time language with a new word, "relationship."  Is this the lack of 'religious' fortitude the article speaks of?

Maybe the culture is re-defining the word without throwing out the important principles.  

The notion of American falling into a spiritual black hole like other western countries conjures questions that make me wonder?

Why do people feel as though this is the time to run from God? We have a rich tradition of a people who worship and believe there is something out there bigger than ourselves.  
Is this a true cultural shift, or is it simply people longing for a more real view of faith?  Have the nature of people who worship turned off the people who see through the hypocrisy we all live?
What will the landscape look like when God is reduced to a choice?  After all, if there is a God in the Universe, I don't think it should be equal to the type of candy I pick out at the convenience store.  

As a fellow faith traveler, I'm curious how this plays out.  

What do you think?    
Is it reasonable to worry about the lack of faith participants in the world today?
What can we do about it? 

Working with College Students on Fear

Just the other day I introduced the concept of Fear to our University Students helping us get ready for our summer season.  Part of the beauty of doing this job is getting a chance to interact with the current trends of high school and college students.  

When I put the word FEAR up on the big White Board, and then asked them what they were most fearful of, it was AMAZING!!

• I'm afraid of what peope think of me
• I'm afraid of my future
• I'm afraid I'm doing something wrong
• I'm afraid I won't be reaching my potential
• I'm afraid I won't get a job
• I'm afraid I chose the wrong major
• I'm afraid my relationships aren't healthy
• I'm afraid I won't measure up to other people around
• I'm afriad of my doubts about faith
• I'm afriad God isn't there

And it went on and on....

We spent the next hour or so just working out what it means to be afraid.  We worked on reasons why we fear things, we talked about our cultural addiction to fear, and finally we had a chance to develop tools to help when we feel the anxiety of fear begin to take over.  

I'm so blessed to have a chance to speak into the lives of these incredible students.  I'm thankful for the ability to just have honest conversations about what's really going on in life.  They've made it a wonderful beginning of a summer season here at KIVU. 

But in the meantime...I think it worthy for us to continue the conversation here on the blog.  What are the things you're most fearful of?  I'd love to begin to share those places we fear, so that we can be a people willing to pray for one another.

An Unlikely Place to Find Peace

Walk the hallways of today's high school and the last thing you'll expect to find is Peace.  Teenagers are renown for constantly putting on a show to stand out from the rest.  Bullying continues to be a problem in the halls and online.  So, how in the world are you ever to encounter a group of people interested in the peaceful lives of another?

Well, we found them.

There is a unique generation rising interested in the core of relationship building that may set the stage for turning the world in a different direction.  The news today is riddled with stories of Syria, Lebanon, Palestine, and Israel.  We often hear of the terror plots conceived by radical Islamists being thwarted by some sort of government intervention, and wars continuing to find purpose in the world of fear.  

What if we could change all that?

I'm not trying to be over optimistic here, but what if we had an opportunity to get out of the suit and tie meetings in the grand ballrooms and actually invest in the future of our world?  Jesus said it clear, "Blessed are the Peacemakers for they will be called the sons of God."  

I don't know about you, but I'm tired of people who just talk...talk...talk.  
I'm fed up with comments like, 'What if we...'
I keep hearing all the elders of the world longing for peace together, but few are willing to sacrifice the contracts, accords, and formality of image to actually make a real difference.

I'm tired of reading the news and hearing more people dying.
I'm tired of watching from afar to see if there's anything I can do.
I'm taking action... 

The first step in my plan is to Introduce Teenagers from Hard Places in a Neutral Environment.  We've been doing summer camp now for nearly 15 years, and we know how to show teens a good time.  It's my deepest belief that most teenagers around the world are longing for similar needs, and we've cracked the code.  Certainly we've got much to learn, but after working with hundreds of thousands of teens and families, KIVU has a unique way of speaking to the heart of teenagers from all over the world.  

What if we had the table set to introduce teenagers from America with teenagers from Israel, Palestine, Jordan, and Saudi Arabia?  What if we had the chance to live life together through an adventurous story in Colorado?  What if there were ways of communication like never before, and those teenagers could grow their relationships online via Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, Google +, and then engage together again in years to come?

What if those Teenagers turned out to be the future leaders of our world?

We've tested this concept.  
We've watched it work with kids from Asia, South America, Europe, and the Middle East.  
Each time we help kids see the basic commonalities of human kind, we see God move in the middle to create a space of relational respect.

It's crazy!!!

The hallways of the high school are no match for your average teenager, but give them a vision for global understanding, and watch them take the banner of leadership to the future.   

Would you consider helping Sponsor an international student to come to America and spend 2 weeks at KIVU?

International Students

 

What an Incredible Weekend of Memory

What started as a normal Memorial Day Weekend, turned into an incredible walk down memory lane here at KIVU.  Certainly we wish to reach out and Thank all the people that make America a wonderful place to express ourselves and afford the opportunities to do things like KIVU around the world.  

We had staff members arriving all weekend for the annual Alumni Weekend get together, and we saw old friends from all the way back to 2001.  I don't know if I've ever laughed so hard reminiscing about the "golden days" of camp as I did on Saturday night when everyone just shared their most valuable memory.  

I've also never taken the time to really sit back and think about how impactful this place has been for so many people.  Nearly 15K high school students have walked through the gates here in Southwest Colorado.  Nearly 1500 University Students have given their summers to show those High School Students a Good Time.  

And the impact...well, it was quite sobering to see how the principles they learned at KIVU set the foundation for family, career, and social well-ness.  I'm just overwhelmed at the way God has used Jamie Jo and I in the lives of so many.  I'm humbled to see what wonderful people God has given us to share life with.  

To all the KIVU alumni both here and those who couldn't make it, Thanks for making life so fun!!  

Here's a short Podcast of one of my buddies who came around 2002.  I think you'll love it!

 

Andy and Jordan Wilson

 

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KIVU Memories: The First Barn Dance

New Project, I need Your Help.

I've often pondered the value of Summer Adventure Experiences compared to other options families have to choose.  There's Sports Camps, Music Camps, even School Camps (yuck), that vie for the summer time seemingly to be shortened each year.  I know first hand the value of a retreat, but I'm always wondering what sets some facilities a part from others.  

Some Camps boast of luxury accommodations, while others keep the rustic life alive.
Some are trying to provide technology awareness, while others want to fast from technology.
Some camps are super spiritual, others not at all.
Well, I've got a new project that is starting to gain traction on a Global Stage.  

Last year I began asking questions like, "How can we provide the MOST impact in the programs we facilitate."  For the last 13 years, we've brought mainly Christian teenagers to come and understand their faith from an experiential, academic, and relational level.  I function well in that environment.

But I ran into some friends who were interested in knowing more.  They were students from Bethlehem and Jordan, the heartbeat of the Middle East.  They are interested in coming to play in Colorado, and go through our program explaining Jesus.  

We invited 10 students to come last year, and they were excited about participating.  We welcomed them into our facility with open arms, open hearts, and open spirits.  We shared what we believed, and had GREAT conversations about some of the differences they believed.  It was absolutely life changing.  I met with the kids in Amman Jordan, still smiling and telling nostalgic stories of their time at KIVU.  

This year we have 50 kids interested in the program.   

50 kids buying plane tickets.
50 kids camp tuition
50 kids eating, laughing, an interacting in a place where spiritual matters can be discussed without any threat on either side.  

It's AMAZING to watch Christian Teenagers explain their faith, and then hear from people who live in a totally different environment.  It's TOTAL learning, and challenging for both sides.  

We've got the equipment, the staff, and the tested program.  All we need are financial partners to help sponsor students to come.  

If you or your sphere of influence might be interested in sponsoring students from Bethlehem and Jordan to come to Colorado this summer... 
If you would be interested in launching a new process to invest in future leadership between two cultures.... 
If you find yourself wanting to play a part in the bigger narrative of Global Events, but you just don't know how...

Click HERE.  

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A Farewell Day to a Wonderful Group

Today we bid a farewell to our Valley Christian High School Friends. For the last three days, we've traveled a short KIVU Journey.

We fasted from technology.
We invited them to a life of relationship.
We helped them see hope in hopeless times in life.
We laughed a lot.
We even saw a few tears.

Last night the Seniors had an opportunity to share their highlights of spending 4 years at their high school. Some were filled with laughter as they told stories you could make reality television shows about.

Others took the chance to encourage their friends, and make sure they understood how much they meant.

But the most surprising part of the evening was when the spirit of forgiveness laid over the room. Guys were asking forgiveness for the times they hurt each other. Girls stood up and looked other girls in the eyes and asked they be forgiven for the times they hurt one another.

It was powerful!!!

Just another indication that the time spent taking time to focus on relationships pays off.

Today they travel back to Phoenix. I'm thankful for the time we got to spend together, and I'm excited for their Graduation Tomorrow.

You guys did GREAT here at KIVU, and I wish you all a HUGE CONGRATS on finishing high school well.

Way to Go Class of 2013!!

Showing Teenagers You Can Have Fun Without Filth

There's a long standing tradition at KIVU, and everyone who comes expects it.  When we built the facility here outside of Durango Colorado, there was a free standing pole barn hand hewed from the original home steaders.  They actually cut down the trees and formed the beams to fit together for Hay Storage and Farm Needs.  

Without hesitation, when the construction people wanted to tear it down, we shouted loud.  'Don't tear down the barn, let's just re-enforce it.'  So instead of building new, we are satisfied with the old.  

Last night was nearly the 100th barn dance at KIVU.  Tens of Thousands of students have come to enjoy a little throwback to a slower time.  We take great care in preparing students to know how to dance, unlike some of the grinding that goes on at school dances these days.  We help the men understand how to respect a lady, and vice versa.  

As I stand back and watch the dance take place, I'm taken back to a time when teenagers didn't have to deal with an over sexualized culture.  They could simply dance together.  I recall a time when two stepping Texas style didn't last any longer than a song, instead of today's implications that if you dance with someone you have to hook up, or worse; be married forever because of a single stroll around the dance floor.

What's amazing!!  The students last night showed up with a healthy dose of skepticism, but they jumped right in.  Before the night was over, even the most socially awkward were at least trying to join the party.  

Good Clean Fun.  
That's what we're all about here.
I believe if we can teach kids to have fun without all the substances and sexual inuendo, there will be friendships formed that can last.  We don't have to be afraid of teenagers having fun.  They like to have fun, and there's few things in life more enjoyable when you can throw a party without hearing of any of the consequences of bad decisions.  

Just another day at KIVU! 

Great Conversation With Today's Young Leaders

One of the best parts about being a rafting guide is having 6 people in a raft with no distractions.  If they listen well, they don't fall out.  If they decide to do their own thing, well....

Today I had another sacred privilege of taking a group of seniors down the river here in Durango.  When we launched, I just had a hunch this was going to be special.  These kids are from Valley Christian High School in Chandler, Arizona; and they are SHARP!!

We started with small talk, 'What's your favorite movie?  What's the highlight of your year?' and then we dove into something a bit more serious.  'What was the lowest part of your senior year?'

I wasn't prepared for them to open up like they did, but I wasn't surprised at the answer.  

"Our class just has people we hang out with, but I really don't know many." one of the guys in my raft confessed.

It was like everything I've been writing about for the last year came full circle.  

They knew each other's Twitter handle.
They knew how to get a hold of one another over their cell phone.
But one girl even commented, 'It's like this last couple of days we've been forced to look each other in the eyes.'

My heart aches for a generation who are missing out on life's most important values.  Living life together is one of the most beautiful parts of being human, and we've reduced relationships to a Tweet and a Text.  

This evening I sat with a couple other students who just thanked me.  'Thanks for letting us end our high school years here (at KIVU).  I never would have ridden a bike in the mountains or rafted down a river.  This has truly been one of the best experiences of my life.'

It's so fun to watch teenagers who most have written off as a group of people just moving through life.  When they have the opportunity to recognize the value of friendship, they rise to the occasion and dive deep into the pool of relationships we were created for.  

What a sacred privilege it is to mentor teenagers, and play a small part in re-shaping the way they live life going forward.  It never gets old! 

Students Comfortable Without Cell Phones?

Yesterday, I took a group of students down the river here in Durango.  Every summer, we like to share the outdoors with our friends from around the world here at KIVU.  We Mountain Bike, Hike, Raft, and Ski, all to develop friendships and connect people with one another.  

Well, crazy thing happened.  I started asking the kids in my raft about cell phones and their usage habits.  Once again, you can learn a lot from someone when you have their undivided attention on a raft.  

"So how are you guys doing without cell phone coverage today?"I asked.
"You know, I thought I was really going to struggle.  But actually I like not feeling like I have to answer someone all the time." she responded.

One of the teachers mentioned they were thinking about cell phone rules at their school, and the kids went ballistic.  "We can't do without cell phones at school.  Our whole life is on that thing."

And then it hit me...

I wonder if we gave over to technology too fast.  We didn't think about the addiction a cell phone would have on us.  

We constantly feel like we're saving time going through emails we don't have to do at the office, but it only serves to take more time spending our free time on emails.
Students feel like it's a defense mechanism.  After all, if someone talks about me on twitter, I need to have my own version ready to respond.
We feel like we're connecting through all the social media, but really we're just isolating ourselves to the screen in front of our face.
And we think we're being efficient with our time, only to wind up a thousand people sitting alone communicating with one another on a screen.  Hmmm...I wonder....have we taken this technology too far? 

One of the students yesterday said, 'It's kind of nice to just talk to someone by looking them in the eye.'

Imagine that...

You can actually look someone in the eye to communicate.   

What we do is so fun to watch.  When you take people outside of their normal and introduce them to the possible, life changes.  These students are comfortable without cell phones, they said so.

Staff Arrives at KIVU, an Interview with Luke Parrott

KIVU is Open!! 

Yesterday we had 100 staff people arrive for training, and we had our first frisbee golf tournament, our first picnic by the barn, and our first evening program filled with lots of dancing, skits and FUN!!

I decided, this morning, to take a second out and interview Luke Parrott, the KIVU Men's Director.  He has been with KIVU for 13 years in various roles, and there's just not many people out there who know the operation aspects of EVERY SECTION of KIVU.  

The podcast below is 9 min. of my interview with Luke.  

Just saw some buses role up.  The Retreat Program at KIVU is open for business, and today we're expecting 120 students from Valley Christian High School from Phoenix.  They are doing their Senior Trip, so I gotta go and start moving and shaking.   

Listen to the Podcast.  And Enjoy.  We're having fun!!

Andy and Luke First Day at Camp

120 Staff + 100 Kids Tomorrow = KIVU is HERE!!

It's a quiet corner on the Los Pinos River in Southwest Colorado.  
In less than 24 hours there will be almost 100 staff, 120 kids, and The Adventure will begin.
For 15 years, I've been working on a dream to develop a place where Teenagers could begin to work with University Students to life live together.  

With the help of thousands of staff over the years...
Hundreds of thousands of donor dollars...
And a little over 10K students who have actually attended...
The dream is once again becoming reality.

Some might say, "Well there are hundreds of summer camps all over America, what makes KIVU different?"  

1. At KIVU, we provide the Best in Class Outdoor adventures for teenagers to explore, discover, and develop a long life story.  Imagine rafting through Class III and IV river rapids, or biking some of the world's greatest mountain bike trails, or climbing some of Colorado's best Rock Climbing sites.  Students who come to KIVU are exposed to the BEST OF outdoor adventures to make Memories that will last a lifetime.  Bottom line, we are proud to have fun, and we believe teenagers like to have fun.  Today, the FUN begins.
2. At KIVU we have a philosophy of living life together.  So many summer camps have the dreaded reputation of counselor and staff members who tell people what to do without regard to where they are in life.  Whether it's a high ropes course where a student is afraid, or a long backpack trip they wanted to try out; our philosophy is "Do what you want to do, and we'll do it with you."  We have a deep desire in our DNA to connect with students, and we feel like the friendships that develop at KIVU have a long lasting play in the lives of the students who come.  They find mentors, they find adventure colleagues, and most of all they find people who don't judge them for what they're not.  We live life together no matter where our students come from.
3. We have a Jesus centric core.  We're certainly not "church camp," but all our staff are walking the Journey road of faith.  We don't have any kind of quantitative conversion charts to judge our effectiveness by how many kids choose to live life our way.  But rather; we have a long history of just accepting kids where they are, asking them hard questions about what they believe, and allowing them to walk at whatever speed they want.  We've had Atheists, Agnostics, Buddhists,  Jews, and Muslims all attend at various times.  And we see our mission to simply Love and Encourage students through the lens Jesus teaches.  "Love God..."  "Love Others..."  It's as Simple as that.  

So for the next 12 weeks, we'll be hosting students from all over America and have over 20 countries represented.  We'll have students from Israel, Jordan, Spain, Australia, Canada, England, France, and most of the 50 States right here in our backyard.  

It's such a beautiful picture of how The Journey mission continues to play in real life.  I've been a part of conversations in Church circles, Para-Church circles, Government Peace Organizations, and Civil Service Groups who all talk about wanting to do something like this.  Well, We're doing it.  The Dream is Reality, and KIVU starts today.

If you'd like to know more about what's going on this summer, be sure to stop by our website at http://www.campkivu.com.  Or if you jsut want to look as some quick action pictures, take a peek on our facebook page filled with photos and videos at http://www.facebook.com/campkivu.  

If you're looking for a cool Colorado Summer in a unique place doing some of the of the most cutting edge life on life work with Teenagers, hit the registration button today, and come join us.  We welcome new people as if they've always been here.  

 

Graduation Season is Here

It's that time of year to watch our students cross the finish line.  Whether it's High School or University level graduations, there's nothing like the feeling of watching the completion of a road traveled so long.  To the graduates of 2013, CONGRATULATIONS!!

The road you're now on is one that will bring new challenges.  You'll be tested in ways that push you from your comfort zone, and help you develop into the Best YOU that you can be.  You've been through much academically, physically, relationally, and spiritually, and I encourage you to continue.  

The misnomer of graduation is, well; it's over.
Life has ended and now it's time to just soak up your rewards.
But don't forget...The Work has Only Just Begun.

Now you have a unique opportunity to enter the world and contribute something to the whole of humanity that YOU were created for.  WE NEED YOU!!  

We need musicians and artists.
We need academics and social workers.
We need athletes and celebrities.
We need scientists and business people.

The world is a better place because you are in it.  

So as you march across that stage, keep your eyes fixed on the horizon, because the sky is the limit.  Live today as if there's nobody else that can live it for you.  And you'll do just fine.

CONGRATS!! 

The Conversation Today: The Great Commission

A Few years ago, I had an interesting opportunity to visit the Grand Mosque in Bahrain.  The Al Fateh Mosque is one of the most beautiful structures in all the world.  Literally, marble flown in from Italy, Lights fashioned in Paris, rugs from Persia, it's an absolutely wonderful building to take in.  

I was meeting a Muslim Friend at the Mosque, and we were going to talk about the similarities of the Christian Faith and the Muslim Faith, but were were also going to outline some important differences.  

Of course when we talk to people of a different faith than the one we claim is truth, there's always a bit of a poker game going on.  To try and be cordial while still holding to truth is an interesting skill.  Most of us just think "well, we're right, they're wrong and that's that."  But when you start really discussing the issues, there are some great places to share life together.  

His first shot across the bow, "How do you read your Great Commission?

Jesus said, "All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.  Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,  and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.” Matthew 28:18-20

Most of my life, I was taught this verse meant that we need to go out and ask people to say a prayer, sign a card, or give their heart over to Jesus.  But of late, I've been wondering what the word disciple really meant.  

The Encyclopedia says, "A disciple is a follower and student of a mentor, teacher, or other figure."  So if Jesus was referring to making disciples, he was actually telling the disciples to simply follow.  He referred to this in John 10 where he said, "I am the way the truth and the life..."  The way actually refers to a method of behavior.  

I stumbled across a video I thought was interesting in describing this problem.  David Platt is a well regarded pastor in Birmingham Alabama.  He gave 2 minutes to discuss this problem like this.

When I revealed to my Muslim friend the fact that I believed the Great Commission was to help people follow God, he looked at me with great interest.  "You mean you aren't trying to convert me?"  

"Well, if by conversion you mean I'm asking you to dance a little mantra, then...No."  

His eyes grew wide and he said, "Andy, there's something different about you.  We need to continue this conversation."  

I started talking through this concept today at KIVU.  As we mentor and train students in the fullness of the gospel, how might this change the worldivew of our day?

Feel free to chime in at your leisure.

Brokering Peace in the Middle East, One Relationship At a Time With Teenagers!!

Turn on the News, and all you hear about the Middle East is destruction.  Syria, Arab Spring, Afghanistan, it just goes on and on.  The images we see are hopeless, filled with pain, and leave Americans wondering if there is any way to solve some of these enormous global problems.

I'm not sure there's one solid answer that would make sense to everyone around the world, but I've traveled to the Middle East quite a bit.  I have friends in Saudi Arabia, Jordan, Iraq, Iran, Syria, Israel, and the UAE.  One thing I've noticed, the older groups I hang out with are pretty much already set in their ways, but the students...well, that's another story.  

I've taken what I've learned over the last 20 years working with teenagers, and I've started applying it to my relationships with Middle East Students.  This Volleyball game was on the Arabian Gulf with American kids, Australian kids, British kids, and Saudi kids, just having a good time.  We played volleyball, kicked the soccer ball, had a cook out, and at the end of the day I made some new friendships that are continuing even today.  

I started thinking....

What if we extended our hand of frienship, and started bringing more and more Middle Eastern kids to experience some fun "American" style adventures.  After all, I've been working at a Colorado Adventure camp for the last 13 of my 20 years in youth work, and so I tried it last summer.  

We brought over 10 students from Jordan who had an absolute incredible time!! We rafted, hiked, biked, rock climbed, and shared life together.  It was nothing short of a U.N. style peace accords, only it was with teenagers, and we weren't trying to prove anything...we were just allowing the relationships to take their own life.  

This summer, I have a unique opportunity to bring 50 students from Jordan and Bethleham.  

Wouldn't that be AWESOME!!  
We could begin  long term friendships with people from the Middle East in hopes of helping to heal relationships here in America.  The only Caveat...We need Resources.  

I've only asked for money on this blog a couple of times, but THIS IS IMPORTANT!!  If we can continue to develop long term relationships between Middle Eastern Teenagers, American Teenagers, Muslim Teenagers, Christian Teenagers, and Jewish Teenagers, What would our world look like in 20 years?  

I'd love to invite you to help me on this journey.  If you, or you know someone who can see far into the investment future of relationships with the Middle East; please contact me, andy@campkivu.com. I have a few donors starting to work on this project, but we need more.  We need people who want to help change the course of history, who trust in the fact we are going to work tirelessly to help mend relationships between East and West.  

We're changing the course of the future, one student at a time.  Come join us along the way!!

Brokering Peace in the Middle East 4.2013

It All Begins Today @CampKivu

Today is the Day!!  KIVU is beginning.  For the next 100 Days, we'll be hosting America's Finest College Students in preparation for our family of High School Adventure Loving Students.  The crew has started to arrive, and the adventures are about to begin.  

For those who have been here before....we miss you.
For those who are coming...we are anxiously awaiting your arrival.
For you who are wanting to beat the heat of the summer time, and head out to Colorado, check out http://www.campkivu.com where you can register online and come and join us.

It all begins today.  
This is the BEST part of the year!! 

A Mother's Day to Honor an Awesome Mother

Around the country today, we honor all the mothers who make life possible.  It's not they make life easier, or life more enjoyable, but let's be honest; POSSIBLE!! 

I'd just like to honor the Mother at the core of Braner Party of 7, Jamie Jo. 

Her heart is big. 
She's selfless in serving everyone in the house from sunrise to sunset. 
She works tirelessly to make sure kids are delivered, homework is complete, and she still finds time to be a friend like no other. 

To Jamie Jo..Happy Mother's Day. 

To the Braner Mother of 2, Sharon Braner; Thanks for your countless hours on the phone talking politics, encouraging in the dark, and loving the Fab 5 the way you do. 

To the White Mother of 4, Debbie Jo; Thanks for your endless support, encouragement, and the way you care for the kids in this house.  We love You Much.

To Grama' - Thanks so much for your continued love for my wife.  Your friendship to her means more than you know, and we are so thankful for you being Gram.

And to all the Moms around the country today...We love you and are thankful for you.

Teaching Some Dynamic Students

This week, I was invited to teach at Shelterwood, a teenage residential facility outside of Kansas City.  Most people would probably describe Shelterwood as a place of last resort.  At least that was my understanding of what I was getting into.  I thought I was going to teach some of the down and out students of society.  I figured it was going to be one of those times where I would do most of the talking, and the kids would be bored to death hearing more about how to think about Re-Imagining their own Christian Worldview.  

I couldn't have been more mistaken.

When I arrived, I was greeted with such warmth and hospitality.  Kids were looking me in the eye, shaking my hand, introducing themselves, and I had a unique opportunity to share how we can see the world in a way we can live out our faith, and make friends.  

One student came to me afterward and handed me a note that said, "I personally do not believe there is a God.  I am agnostic, and I just don't care if there is one or not.  If there is one, cool there's a God.  But if there is no communication with him/her whatsoever cool we're just here living our our lives just as we would if there is one.  I'm interested in the God you're talking about, and I'd like to continue our conversation."  

BOOM!!

That's what we do.  

We don't just tell people about God, we live life where people are.  Of Course I would hope that someone would know God and experience the fullness of life He affords to offer each one of us.  But yesterday was a HIGHLIGHT for me this year.  To sit with students, some who believe and some who don't, and just have real honest conversations is a joy.  Being honest with the things I've learned in life, and the struggles I still have to try and make sense of the world is such a wonderful place for me.  

So a  BIG thanks to Shelterwood for having me in.  I'm looking for more times where we can connect in the future.  

If you'd like more information about Shelterwood, Click on this Link  http://shelterwood.org

Speaking at Shelterwood 3.2013

The KIVU Gap Year + Podcast

The KIVU Gap Year is an exciting project we've constructed to serve the future.  We believe with the investment of Time, Resources, Education, and Real Worldview understanding, we can seed the next generation of professional people to engage the world with an honest Jesus-Centric Faith.  

The KIVU Gap Year combines the passion found in the heart of adolescence to help one another, with a special formation of cerebral intellect, and the tools to actually be effective going forward to make a difference in the world.  

THE HEART
It's easy to send students on a short term mission trip around the world and see effective change when they come home.  The platforms of churches missions Sundays are filled with students who experienced something different than they knew before they engaged with a culture different than their own.  So, what makes The KIVU Gap Year different from a well healed high school student mission trip?

1.  We don't want to ever settle for the emotions of grattitude.  Often a student will return from a mission trip with a heart to help, but an attitude of grattitude for the life THEY'VE been gifted.  It's not a bad thing, but it is a bit demoralizing to the people in other economic situations to say you've been blessed financially and they haven't.  Doesn't God love all people?

2.  We want to create a generational culture whereby students can see the world as potential partners, not as some sort of economic caste system.  Sure, America has access to resources that have been unrealized in all of human history; but what is our responsibility to manage those resources for the better of someone else?  How can we look at someone in the eye living in the slums of whatever country you choose, and live life with them instead of At Them?  

At the KIVU Gap Year we want the heart of students to regulate all people as human, rather than objectifying people based on socio-economic class or platform.

THE BRAIN
1.  Short term mission trips are valuable to expose people to the world, but rarely do they have the time to introduce participants to reasons why?  Why does poverty exist?  Why is healthcare systematically the way it is?  What historical events lead a particular group of people to be living in their own current conditions?  At The KIVU Gap Year, we want students to be able to articluate the problem in an intellectual way, but we also want them to participate in the solutions.  

2.  Each student has been given a gift from God.  It's our position that if we can ignite that gift to a place where it can be used and honed in a practical way, we can help provide experiences where life comes alive.  The way people think, the way they interpret certain experiences, and the speed and efficency at how they come to conclusions are largely developed in educational settings.  We don't want students to come on the KIVU Gap Year and leave saying, "It changed my life,"  Unless of course we've provided an environment where professional, social, and educational spaces will be forever changed.  

It's easy to stand up after a week on a short term trip and say the experience effected me.  It did, in the short term.  But a quick glance at the students who I've taken around the world in the short term shows a better chance of effective change if we include proper education.  

THE TOOLS
1.  The KIVU Gap Year student will not only begin to hone the emotions of the heart and the intellect of the brain; but they'll also be provided the resource to use certain Tools to develop a network of people who will actually be life long friends.  They'll have actual performance evaluations as they intern around the world with global leaders in actual proffessional positions.  

2. I've started to interview our graduates, and I'm finding a healthy use of the tools they were provided on our year long program.  Some are interning in social work, others are interning in law firms, and one is even working in a hospital to provide health care.  Like a carpenter with access to the latest woodworking tools, they can't pass a problem without engaging in a solution.  They're different than the students in their class because they've had a multi-phased educational year to prepare them for life.  

The most important piece of these three is the core center of faith.  We don't create a place wehre we argue over theology, but rather; we lock arms with people around the globe who simply Love God, and Love Others.  When students catch a whiff of what it smells like to live a life full of the gospel, they can't help but be changed forever.  

I'm so excited about the transformation happening at the KIVU Gap Year.  Our hope is that hundreds of students will begin to seed the world as honest faith believing citizens who have the ability to love the whole world.  (John 3:16) 

 

The KIVU Gap Year Podcast 2.2013

 

Video of Andy Speaking

 

Trusting in a Divine Plan | May 5 from Smoky Hill Vineyard on Vimeo.

 

Podcasting

Podcasting is a great way to listen to your favorite authors, speakers, or even your friends who are creating interesting content.  Most Churches have some sort of "casting" that allows their congregations to participate in the message they feel called to sharing with the world.  

I tried podcasting a few years ago, and it was just not in the cards.  The amount of time and energy to get a podcast up and running is pretty immense, but with careful thought and consideration, I've been encouraged to start it back up.  

So today..yes today...I'll be working on getting the podcasts back up and running.  The theme of the podcasts will be centered around current Worldivew thinking, re-defining the word Worldview as it relates to cultural events, and of course our Teenage environment.  I'll try and keep it fresh and new as I review books, movies, educational opportunities, and most importantly how we can see those through the lens of following Jesus.  

BUT I NEED YOUR HELP!!!!

Here's the deal.  As many have asked for a podcast, I just need you to help me get the word out.  If you like what's going on here at andybraner.com, don't be afraid to share it with your friends on whatever social media outlet you use most often.  If it's facebook, share it with your friends.  If it's twitter, help me by re-tweeting the podcast to your network.  And as always, there's a way you can feed the podcast directly into your mobile device by subscribing through iTunes.  

If you have any suggestions for shows...
If you have any questions for me...
If you want to be on the podcast...
Or, if you just want to give a shout out by recording your own message...

Feel free to comment below, and we'll crank up the podcasting here at www.andybraner.com.  

Thanks for pushing me back to the middle.  I'm excited to see where this is going to go.  

Podcast 1.2013

 

When X-tians act like the world...

While trying to encourage people to re-define their own Christian Worldview, it's come to my attention how many differing Worldviews there are out there.  Everyone likes to use the word "Worldview" to highlight how intellectual, or authentic, or foundational they are when approaching the framework of what it means to live in the world and follow Jesus.

Some are political.
Others are economic.
Some are philosophical.
Still others try and combine some sort of cultural division, as if there's some sort of counter subculture of "secret" Christians who have the corner on the market of truth while all the others are sinking in the pit of worldliness.

But after doing this work for nearly 20 years, I'm seeing more and more differentials between people who all use the same word...."Worldview."  

Sure a worldview is a set of principles whereby you see the rest of the world.
Yes, a worldview can be an idea with God at the center, or it might be an idea where God is non-existent.
You might even find a worldview where the core of someone's basic beliefs are born out of family tradition, emotions, or even some need for everyone to live in a similar economic situation.

Whatever the word means to you, I hope you take it serious.  
A Worldview isn't simply talking about how you think, it's about applying the ideas of your philosophy/theology/sociology/biology/psychology and so forth; to your real life.

Recently I was working with a group of people who called themselves Christians.  They prayed well.  They praised well.  They even talked a good game when they met people who were potential "conversion targets.'  But the minute they had to sacrifice some time, some money, or some other resource valuable to them; they ran!  

In other words, I watched people who could talk a big game, but when it came right down to it, their behavior wasn't any different than a worldly salesman.  They were interested in reporting how good they were, but when no one was looking, they couldn't care less about the people they were leaving in the dust.  (of course I'm writing vague as to not get in a liable lawsuit about someone's character)

I think the world has had it with this kind of X-Tian.
It's such a game where the worldview at the moment we can agree to, but when people have to be called on to prove it in real life,  they run.  
When it gets hard, they revert to the life most comfortable, not the life most right.

I guess this week, I'm being reminded about how important it is to make sure we re-define the Christian Worldview, but we do it in a way that is represented in our actions.   Anyone can talk a big game.  What sets you a part today?  What makes you a re-definition?  If someone watched you work today, would they be able to tell you are a counter cultural being working for something higher than yourself?  

If not...you need a re-definition.

Working with Right-Ness: DO THE RIGHT THING!!

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters (Colossians 3:23-24)

Recently I've had some interesting encounters with employees, friends, and acquaintances in the area of job performance.  Watching  people do their work is an interesting gauge of someone's character.  I have one friend who is going out of his way to make sure his profession continues to have a good name, and another friend who is cutting as many corners as he can to make a deal go through.  

I've watched contractors decide it's easier to skimp by.
I've seen IT guys who cut corners where they know clients won't notice.
I've witnessed bankers deliberately add in minute cost structures so their firm can make just a little more money on transactions.  
And all for what??

As I was driving to work this morning, I took a quick inventory of my own heart and just asked the Lord, "Am I doing everything you've called me to do?"  

In other words, Am I working for the glory of God?  Or, am I working for the glory of man?  
Am I doing my work well?  Or, am I doing my job to try and 'get ahead?' (whatever that means.)

As I was praying this morning, I thought it would be a good time to encourage all my readers here at andybraner.com to work as though you're working unto the Lord.  Whatever job He's called you to do, do it in the right way.

I'll never forget hearing General Norman Schwarzkopf giving a commencement speech at a well endowed University.  After the first Gulf War, the President asked the General, "What is the one biggest piece of advice you can give to our graduates?"  And he replied, "Just do the right thing.  If we all just do the right thing, life tends to work out."

So today, I just encourage you, DO THE RIGHT THING.  It may not be the most convenient.  It may not be the most profitable idea at the time.  You may even need to go back and re-do something you've already done to make it right.  But if we DO THE RIGHT THING as to represent ourselves before the Lord, the world will take notice.  

They'll know we can be trusted.
They'll know we are people who care for others.
They'll know we love our neighbor.
They'll see something different about us.  

Today's motto:  DO THE RIGHT THING!! 

 

Entitlement: Responsibility is a Journey, not a Destination

I'll never forget the year I decided to be the local soccer coach for my 6 year old kids.  It's what all aspiring super dads want, mainly to be looked at as the "Coach."  Right?  

When I started, I knew very little about soccer.  
I decided to go online and find out different plays, drills, and practice schedules.  
After all, it was my job to prepare these kids to WIN.  

We started practice on an early September afternoon and the kids showed up starry eyed and dazzled by the green of the grass.  

Like a drill sergeant preparing his troops for battle, I started in on designing plays, giving consequences for failed routes, and helping the kids get in shape by using running drills for punishment.  I wasn't such a great elementary coach.  

At the end of the season we were 9-0, and had ZERO goals scored on us.  
We were a well oiled machine.

After the season trophy presentation, one of the parents asked me to step down as the coach because they felt like I was taking the game too serious.  They said, "I need to learn how to teach kids to have fun, and let them grow up."  

I agreed, and humbly stepped down.  My pride was hurt, as I thought I did a good job, but if the parent's weren't happy, then I get it.  

The next season, a new coach took over.  
He encouraged the parents to clap for their kids when they scored a goal.
He made sure everyone got a chance to play.
And He rewarded the kids for showing up for practice instead of rewarding based on accomplishment.  

In the middle of the season the team was 0-5, and all of the sudden I started getting inquiries from the same parents who "fired" me from the year before.  "Hey, Braner, you wouldn't want to come back and take over, would you?"

I couldn't help but smile and politely decline.
Who did these parents think I was?
I knew what it was going to take to win, and cheering just for the sake of being alive wasn't going to do it.  
I did realize I didn't have to run it like a drill sergeant, but come on.  Everyone doesn't deserve a trophy for just showing up.

I think there's a cultural kick back happening in the world right now.  We're feeling the consequences of all those years of telling our kids "You Deserve it"  While they didn't really do anything to deserve anything.  

The equation of self worth is a mix of variables.  Experience, Genetics, Accomplishments, and Failures all stack up to help us develop what is at the core of our own essence.  We learn how to act, react, and ultimately do the right things when life starts getting hard.  We learn how to accept failure, and celebrate successes.  

Throw in an unhealthy dose of social media, and now we have a group of kids who 'deserve' a trophy, and now are entitled to lots of friends, likes, and clicks to prove their value.  

I recently talked to a student who was throwing a fit because they only had 100 twitter followers.  "Conan OBrian has thousands, why can't I only have 1K?"  He asked, almost as if it was owed to him to have a certain number of public celebrity status.

"Well, Conan OBrian is Conan Obrian...' I said.  "He's spent a lifetime working comedy, and has taken a lot of risk to be a celebrity."

And the student looks at me with a blank stare like a Deer in headlights standing in the middle of a crowded highway.  

REALLY?

We've created a group of students who feel owed, entitled, lack of responsibility to engage in the consequences of their actions.  I'm watching as 35-40 year old ADULTS are incapable to just 'doing the right thing' because they feel as though the world owe's them something.

It's a strange world we live in where standing up and doing the right thing has been drowned out by the cheers of parents trying to make us feel good about ourselves.  And that's why we need to continue letting our kids fail.  

They learn.
They adapt.
They figure out life.
And then they get up and become responsible citizens.  

It hurts when you loose the game.
It's no fun when you have to work for what you have.
It seems as though everyone around has it easier.
But in the end, it's the Journey that counts....Not the Destination. 

Summer time is Almost Here, Don't Sweat it! Come to Colorado!

Since 2001 Camp KIVU has been offering adventures in Southwest Colorado. We've seen over 12,000 teenagers and college students who are walking through life with a sense of purpose, a connection with like minded folks, and a stanchion of story where they can call on for help during their time as young professionals.  

I get emails all the time from students who are navigating marriage now, working through owning their own business, traveling through their own professional careers, and all are thankful for the time and energy it took to get out here and invest from a KIVU perspective.  

We just launched a new website, and are working on a new way of registration.  If you'd like to see all things KIVU is doing, check out www.campkivu.com, or HEY, just watch the video below.

 

KIVU Commercial from Andrew Braner on Vimeo.

 

So What are you waiting for, Click here and  REGISTER TODAY.  

Watching the Aftermath of Boston

My heart is sad every time I turn on the news and watch the aftermath of the Boston tragedy last week.  It's hard to imagine someone willing to cause so much destruction in the middle of a peaceful celebration of fitness, agility, and competition.  But, that must be the world we live in now.  

I'm amazed that two people can actually have the entire city of Boston shut down on a manhunt.  I feel the blanket of fear covering the country when we're wondering who, what, why, when, and how.  The millions of dollars spent on security going forward are going to be a tribute to the nature of evil in the world today.  

One comment jumped out over all the others when I heard one of the bombers say, "I don't have one American friend."  And I audibly groaned.  WOW!!  How in the world can we continue the isolationist mindset in our culture until we have the ability to reach out to people in our own community.  

There's no question the blame lies with the two who set the bombs.  But it begs the question, "Who was taking care of the relationship needs of these two boys?"  We can hum and haw around about how the religious leaders tried to radicalize them, but really; radicalization only happens when there are victims who are ready to be trained and brainwashed.  

As I sat back and wondered about the work I do in Colorado, it pushed me even further to wonder how we can help create spaces for people to connect.  I'm moved by the stories of innocent victims who didn't ask for this lot in life, but I'm also moved by the sad state of the bombers who "didn't have an American friend."

I suppose Boston taught me a few important lessons.

There's certainly evil in the world we will have to endure.
I want to make sure to reach out to everyone in my community who needs a friend.
Celebration is an important part of life and we shouldn't allow those who wish to cause fear to win.
I'm more impressed to pray.

Today I'm praying for the state of our country.
Today I'm praying for the people who fell victim to this senseless violence.
Today I'm praying for God to give us divine meetings to reach out and create relationships with the people in our own communities.  

One thing is for sure, Life wasn't meant to be lived Alone.  Those of us who are able have an obligation to look around and take care of those who are feeling isolated.  

I'm praying for Boston in the aftermath of this atrocity.  

The KIVU Gap Year Graduation Week

This is the week our KIVU Gap Year students graduate from their year long program around the world. They are working on re-entry this week, and learning what it means to come back to a world that is very different from the one they've been exposed to in the last 6 months.

I think this picture shows the heartbeat of what we're trying to do. As our students focus on Global Medical Issues, Business Solutions, Social Problems, and Outreach to all sorts of people; they've learned not only to focus on their own studies but also to give themselves to whomever they're working with. Rich or Poor, Healthy or Sick, High Social Class or Bottom Rung of society; The KIVU Gap Year helps to give students real experience in the real world as they navigate their own future vocations.

I'm so proud of the students this year, and I'd welcome you to watch their Journey on Facebook www.facebook.com/thekivugapyear, or check out their blog www.kivugapyear.com. Please help me welcome our kids back home. It's been quite a year.

Prayers for my friend, Randy

This morning I need some help.  

A dear friend, Randy Bister, is back in the hospital fighting Leukemia and Pneumonia.  Randy worked at KIVU a few years ago, and made such an impact on hundreds of students, but today is fighting for his own life.  

I welcome any prayers from those of you out there, to lift up my friend Randy.  We know God can heal.  We know Doctors heal.  We know medicine heals.  But as believers, one thing we are called to do is to pray.  

James 5:14-15 says, "Is anyone among you sick? Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord.  And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven."  

We know God chooses to heal those He chooses to heal, but our job is to pray.  

Please pray for my friend Randy.  His family and friends are giving updates on a special facebook page...CLICK HERE to see what's happening and show support.  

Learning to Live in the Present

If I'm honest in my own spiritual life, I have to admit it's easy to get caught in the things that aren't important.  Just like the families I counsel, I have the same temptation to push hard to produce the next book, sign the next deal, fill the next camp, or do the next big global mission.  

For a physician it looks like becoming part of a medical society with power and prestige.
For an attorney it looks like winning the big case so all the other attorneys think highly of you.
For a construction manager, it's building the next building people can gawk at.
For a businessman, it's sealing the next deal that will buy you a bigger house, a faster car, a sleeker suit.  

But in the end, What do all those things really matter?

Solomon took a long walk down the road of life's meaning in a book called Ecclesiastes.  He sought to find the ultimate meaning in life through pleasure, women, work, riches, power, prestige, and ultimately found that the world poses nothing but fleeting satisfaction.  "Vanity of Vanity, All is Vanity."

No matter how much money you get, there's always a need for more.  
No matter how many clothes you have, there's always a desire for more.
No matter how many championships you win, there's always a need to win another.
It's a crazy hedonic cycle that feeds something inside us without a true sense of satisfaction.  

The problem working in ministry is, you can justify all those things under the banner of doing something for God.  How can you sit in a place of apathy when God NEEDS YOU!! (or needs me, which is really why I'm writing this.)

I need to learn to live in the present.
I need to take the lesson from the great leaders of old who figured out how to live with the most important things.  
Things like...

Being grateful for today.
Being thankful for the life God has given me.
Saying Thanks to the people in my life who continue to act like they like me, anyway.  HA!
Making sure I take time to live today without giving into the pressure of worrying about the future.  

Today, I want to live like Jesus.  "Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." (Matthew 6:34)

Can you imagine what it would look like if we found the things that really mattered, and focused on them in the NOW...rather than worrying about what was to come?  

 

Finding Balance In a Crazy Life

This week I was at Wilmington Christian Academy with some incredible students thinking through the ministry and message of God's work in their lives.  I had so much fun sitting with creative thinkers, praying with willing, and laughing a lot!!  That's why I love hanging with teenagers, WE LAUGH A LOT!!

During the week, I sat in on one my good friend's message.  His name is John, and he's a pastor in Hockessin Delaware.  He was teaching a group of young men about what it meant to be a man!  Now, I've got to tell you, I've been a part of SO MANY men conferences where someone has another idea about manhood.  It seems like there are EXPERTS in the fields of "what a man is" so I was keenly interested to see where John was coming from and what he would communicate to the students.  

He told of his being a fighter pilot in the Air Force, and now he's a pastor in an area of America where it is notably "Post-Christian."  People just don't go to church on Sundays like they do in the South or the Mid-West.  And so he went on to help the junior and senior young men understand what the difference was between a man of the world and a man of God.  

1. He said, "A Man of the world is defined by the woman he can get, while a man of God is defined by the woman he can keep."  In other words, the world tells our young men to hustle to find a woman who can hang on your arm where your friends will judge you to be a man worthy of their approval.  I couldn't help but think about how objective that must seem to a woman.  He spent time telling them how to care for a woman, and serve a woman for the intent of marriage.  
2. He said, "A Man of the world is defined by the house that he builds, while a man of God is defined by the home he can make."  WOW-isn't that a truth.  While more and more hunger for the world drives us all to build a bigger house with nicer things, emptiness lives inside of many Americans who are longing for meaning in life.  What a good principal to share with young men before the enter their vocation.
3. He said, "The world will judge you by the job you can get, while God will judge you by the job that you do."  BOOM!  For my 20's and 30 something's you are not identified by the lab coat you where or the suit you put on.  A real man is defined by the job that he does with what is in front of him.  Excellency in our work is a testimony to who we are on the inside.  

I couldn't help but think how we all get this out of balance.  We put so much emphasis on how the world wants to pat us on the back, and give us the encouragement we think we need.  But in the midst of REAL LIFE, God is intersted in what's going on inside a man.  

So let this be an encouragement to you today, Let your identity come from who you are, not what you do.  Let your worth come from the relatioships you develop, not the objectification of another.  And be careful to tend to the things MOST important in life.  

Bless you this weekend.  

The Deadly Week We'll Never Forget

What a week?  WOW!!  Boston. Waco. Memories of 9-11.  Abortion Doctors. Earthquakes. Death. Destruction.  It's been one of those weeks that keeps us all wondering, "God, if ever we need you, we need you now."  

I was talking to a small fellowship last night, a group I deeply care for; and the message of God's living 'with us' not 'at us' consumed my spirit.  I read from Philippians 2:6, "Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage."  

The God of the Universe, Creator of All things, In Him all things hold together (Colossians 1) came to provide an example, a beginning, and a re-creation to humanity.  And what's even more interesting:  He didn't come as a King.  He didn't come as a Ruler.  He didn't come as a Business man.  He came in the form of a servant.  

In John 13, Jesus gathered His disciples and bowed before them to serve them, to wash their feet.  He lowered Himself from Heaven to dwell with Humanity, and then Humbled Himself in front of the disciples He called to spread the Word He came to teach...in the face of their dirty feet.

He wasn't interested in becoming something anything other than a true servant delivering the message of God's ultimate love for the world.  

In the Face of Boston, Waco, Abortion Doctors, Murder, Earthquakes, and Global Disasters, God's love is what we long for, what we hope for, and what we need in the midst of a world gone array.  

My prayer today is for God to comfort and encourage people in the center of their pain.  
May we who follow Jesus be able to share the Love God gave us with those who need it most today.  

 

 

 

Oh You of Little Faith

I'm reading my daily gospel Meditation today, and the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 people is today's image.

I've been sitting here thinking, "What in the world were the disciples thinking?"

Can you imagine having 5K people sitting at a certain church outreach in the middle of some field somewhere. There's no rest stop, no fast food joints, no grocery store around; and the pastor may have gone a little long, and everyone is itching to get something to eat.

Now, I don't know about your church, but I've been to churches where the 11:30 itch hits the middle of the pews, and the congregation starts hinting to the pastor that it's time to get out and beat the 'other' churches to the Golden Coral for Sunday Brunch.

Can you imagine 5K?

Of course we know the story where 5 loaves and 2 fish become a meal for all 5 thousand people with 12 baskets of left overs to be eaten later. And it's easy to read through a story where we know it turns out well, but what if it didn't?

That's where the crux of faith and real life meet in real time. Sure, I believe God can multiply food, after all He created it all. He can do whatever He wants. But what about the times He decides not to?

WHEW..now that's the difference between someone who can live in the middle of faith, and someone who Jesus would continually look back and scold, "Oh, yea of little faith."

I have a friend who lives with incredible back pain. We've prayed for years God would heal him. He's been to the best doctors in the world. He's been to countless prayer meetings. He's still walking around with back pain.

Or what of my friend's mother who recently died of cancer? We prayed in faith she might be healed, but God took here at 46 years old. What happened? Did we live life without the faith Jesus calls for?

Or what of my friends who've been faithful in their business for 30 years, and just recently were told they had to shut it all down? Were they living outside the bounds of faith when they kept praying for God to intervene?

I don't know if I have any answers today, as much as I have questions. I'm not trying to start a fight, or reiterate any theological positions. I'm simply asking, how do we get the place Jesus asks us to get in our faith?

Certainly James talks about faith in terms of trials and circumstance. "Consider it joy my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds..." But none of us REALLY want to welcome trials into life.

Modern faith movements tell our youth to dream Big and let God move. He's ready to answer your Big Dreams and make His name known to the world. And then I watch my 25-30 year old friends just trying to survive in the world. They bought in with all the chips on the table, and God didn't show up like they thought.

I'm impressed by the leaders of the faith who are able to frame their lives in the context of faith. The one's who have the ability to see beyond circumstance and honestly and authentically climb into a space where faith drives their next decision.

I guess the first place to start for me today is back when Jesus said, "Don't worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow has enough worries of it's own." I supposed worry, doubt, guilt, and self worth issues are the things that cripple the ability to walk in faith.

Ok...so today...It's time to live by faith. God I give you my day today (as I take a deep breath) and I choose to focus on the things you have for me today without compromising for tomorrow.

What ways have you found a life full of faith effective? I'd love to learn from my friends here at The Journey.

Ever Seen a Storm Coming?

The Eastern Part of the United States is enduring the annual Tornado Ritual.  Each spring when the warm air of spring collides with the cool winter wind of the north these crazy storms show up tearing apart everything in their path.  

I've been in the middle of storms like these, and I can tell you, they're pretty scary.  

This morning I was reading the story of Jesus calming the storm in Mark 4:35-41.  It talks about the disciples being in the boat, and the group heading to the other side of the sea.  A storm came and threatened to capsize the boat and the disciples cried, "Teacher, don't you care if we drown?"  

That's when Jesus stood up in the boat and demanded the winds to be quiet and the seas to be still.  The disciples were amazed and asked themselves, "who is this that can calm the wind and the waves?"  

As I was praying this morning, I started thinking about the significance of God's choosing to come and live life with us.  He didn't dictate morality from a golden throne in heaven, but rather; chose to come and live on earth at a specific time in history.  

He didn't choose to come in the form of a King or a Business leader.  He came as a teacher, a rabbi, a mentor to help the common man understand the ideas of heaven.  And, in the middle of His time on earth, He kept reassuring those that followed that He was indeed who He said He was.  

Then I started wondering, Maybe some of us have never been through a storm on the sea, or a tornado in the prarie, but we all endure storms in life.  In fact, one thing is certain about all of us...

Storms in life are coming, and we have a choice, to fear the storm or have faith in a God who cares.  

Today, I choose faith.  

I know there are times in life where the wind and the waves will crash all around. 
I know there are times when I will wonder which direction to turn.
I've been in places where I didn't know to turn right or left.  
But I know, this morning, I choose to set my sights on something greater than myself.  

Have you ever seen the storm coming?

Which direction did you go? 

Creating a Story: First Steps to Finding Connection

I've been noticing more and more people standing in a model pose with their iPhones at arms distance. Taking a picture and posting it on Instagram or Facebook has become the 'new way' of telling people a story.

"Look what food I ate!"
"See who I met last night."
"I'm on a island cruise...don't you wish you were here?"

The problem with this kind of story is, it's almost always focused on, well; YOU.

Many of my teen mentor friends have used words like selfish, self centered, even narcissism to describe the way social media is changing the way we think. I think that might be a little over reaching, but the ideas now where our story is THE most important part of our journey through life tends to focus SO much on self, I believe it leads to isolation. I think you can be so obsessed with your own story, you can find yourself in a place where you're the only one who cares about the next picture, the next event, or the next status update.

In my book ALONE, I try to outline ways for us to re-engage with honest relationships. And one of the ways I propose we start living is to create a story.

Climb a Mountain, not for the sake of conquering the mountain, but for the memories you'll make with your friends.

Travel to a place you've never been before, not so you can wallow in your own bravery, but so you can remember the place with your friends.

Eat new foods, with friends.
Discover new hobbies, together.
Put adventure in your life, even if it means walking through a block of town you've never gone.

I believe when we stretch ourselves to create a story together, we can always remember who was with us when.

And what a difference it makes when you begin creating a story with God. (I know this gets a little theological to think about, but hang in there with me.)

If God began the story, and has invited you into it, How great would it be to dive deep into the waters of togetherness with your creator.

I'm convinced, most of our loneliness comes from either a lack of togetherness with our creator, or a lack of togetherness with one another.

When Jesus said, Love The Lord your God with all Your Heart, Mind, and Soul, this is the first and greatest commandment, He offered a remedy for the loneliness we feel. For as we Love God with everything inside us, we discover the story He intends to live WITH us, in the present.

If you're feeling Alone today, start your day as I start mine. "God I praise you for being the Creator of All things. I'm excited to see what chapter you're writing today. May I live my life in such a way to live Your story With You."

Just start your story there, and let's see where it goes.

The Wild Wild West of the Internet

Last week I saw the internet in it's most raw form.  After the announcement of Rick and Kay Warren's son Matthew breaking via CNN, Twitter, and The Huffington Post, the comments following the articles were nothing short of vile.  

I'm all for free speech, but when I witnessed the nasty comments concerning the possibility Rick and Kay were responsible for the death of their 27 year old son Matthew, I just felt dirty.  With each comment, I just kept asking myself, "Where in the world did the Internet give people the right to be so vile?"

And then I saw the names of the people commenting.  

None of them were actual names.
None of them had any responsibility to reveal themselves.
They were comments hidden behind the mask of a computer screen with no way to be known.  
It's almost like they had a mask on, stealing the joy away from people who were hurting, only to share their own "free" advice on how to handle mental illness in your own family.  

What have we become?

When it's more important to stand on your opinion of someone else's life work in the face of tremendous tragedy, is that human?
Could we, for a moment, understand the loss of a child in our own family deserves at best, a time of grief, sympathy, and condolence?

I'm fairly certain the founding fathers who afforded us the freedom of speech outlined in the constitution had no intent for the freedom of speech to be taken to the point of hurtful hate toward one another.  Free speech was specified as a method whereby people didn't have to fear the government oppression they lived under an oppressive King,  NOT to claim free speech as they proverbially kick a family in their most painful time of need.  

This isn't the Wild Wild West, is it? According to social evolutionists, we live in a world with morals and evolved to a place where we know right from wrong.  Or do we?

The latest vileness I witnessed on Monday and Tuesday leave me to wonder if our evolution as humanity hasn't come nearly as far as some might have us believe.  We still live in a world where humanity chooses to serve it's own interest, rather than the interest of others.  We're just downright mean.

I have to respect Mr. Warren who tweeted yesterday, "Father forgive them, they know not what they do."  With the final words of Jesus, Pastor Warren once again evoked the grace and mercy of God he continues to try and embody in his own heart. I can't imagine the pain.   

To the Warrens:  I'm deeply saddened for your loss.  I have no idea what it means to loose a son.  I'm so sorry for the pain you are experiencing, and I for one will be praying for you and your family.  I'm sorry for the comments you had to endure during this tragedy, and my hope is you will continue to feel the love and support from your fellow humans, even if they disagree with you.  

Maybe we should return to the Wild Wild West. At least there, you had to take responsibility for the people you shot.

 

The KIVU Gap Year: Creating Global Leaders

I've been getting the news back slowly but surely. The University Acceptance letters have gone out, and many of my High School friends are already packing up their rooms. Excitement is in the air, and the promise of a great future s just across the threshold of their fall admissions. There's so much to do.

But as they get excited for their Freshman year, I'm also hearing from my Sophomore friends who were in the same position just a short year ago.

They're tired.
They're wondering if the class schedule is really going to make a difference in what they want to do.
They're looking for internships.
The wide dark clouds of uncertainty are beginning to build in their future plans.
The once wide eyed new Freshman are now facing a bit of reality.
And that's how the cycle goes.

Each spring, I get excited with my friends, only to see them the next year wondering if they made the right choice.

I've got to tell you, for three years now, I've seen a program work that doesn't have the same feeling. The cycle is actually beginning to break, as I've seen three classes of students decide they weren't scared of the world, but rather; excited to engage with the world.

The KIVU Gap Year is creating global leaders with the initiative, internships, and networking ability to do whatever they want to do across the World.

One of our students this year posted an awesome blog this morning. I invite you to read...http://kristenhendrix.tumblr.com/post/47538893646.

Kristen has put in as much as anyone in the program, and she's getting more out of it than she ever thought.

Last week, the Christian Broadcast Network sent a reporter to do a story on The KIVU Gap Year. As soon as it breaks, I can't wait to share it with you, as it will be broadcast to over 130 different countries.

The reporter and the crew were so excited about the project, we think they're going to put it into a 5 minute segment. FIVE MINUTES!!! Never heard of in the Journalism world.

In any event, take a long hard look at your choices coming up this fall. You still have time to come and join The KIVU Gap Year, just check it out at www.kivugapyear.com.

I promise the lure of the Freshman year is nothing compared to spending a year traveling the world, meeting high powered government officials, and interning for some of the most well established relief organizations around the globe.

Understanding Life Inside Technology

Last October I released ALONE: Finding Connection In a Lonely World.  

The purpose of the book was to highlight issues teenagers are dealing with as they navigate life through the lens of technology.  

Texting replaced Talking.
Facebook replaced Real Face Time.
Google+ attempted to created a party online.
Twitter reduced our thoughts to 140 characters.  

I thought, "Surely teenagers will see the difference between valuable relationship time, and using technology to prop up your closest friendships."  

I was wrong...

I sat with a student last week, and asked, "Where do you guys go to hang out?  I mean, I never see you guys walking down the street, or hanging at the mall, or going to the movies.  Where is everybody?"

He looked at me with a strange stare and finally connected the dots.  He pulled his iPhone out of his back pocket and said, "Why would I go hang out?  I hang out with my friends every night in my room." as he held up his hand held device.  

And that's when I thought, Wow, we've missed it.

 Think of it like this...
When a fish is born in the Ocean, it doesn't know anything else but the water it breathes.  Migration happens every single day based on clarity of the water, salinity levels, and social movement.  It's not really that different with those 25 and under.  They don't know life any other way.

They were born in a world filled with Technology.  They don't know life without Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, or cell phones.  We can't hold them to an expectation of relationship as we know relationship, because they're relationships HAVE been forged in the fires of emerging communication.  

So I turned to people 25-55, and I found it.  

Although I still believe we have issues connecting the 25 and unders together outside of technology, it's the 25 and older crowd that knows life without Facebook.  They know what it's like to play, imagine, and connect with each other in real time.  

Strangely enough, it's the 25 and older crowd living life MOST ALONE.  The biggest demographic on Facebook right now are 35-65 year old women.  ??

There's an underlying understanding in people that grew up outside of modern internet communication, there's more to life than someone RT'ing my 140 characters or "liking" my status.

They know what it's like to share a meal with someone.
They understand the excitement of meeting new people in a new environment.
They long to be in places where they can connect together and create a story.  

At the core of the 25 and under crowd, they know it's exciting to meet new people, but they still need to be exposed to environments where relationships can be made strong through common experience.  

Last week I was traveling, and sat next to a 24 year old University Graduate who was simply exploring the world.  He told me stories where he would meet people one at a time at various hostiles along his global journey.  He'd travel for 2-3 months, and then get a job wherever he landed to make enough money to travel to the next location.  It was quite amazing.  

When I asked him, "Do you ever feel Lonely?" His answer surprised me.  

"Not really.  I think meeting people in unique situations gives me a sense I'm connecting.  Then I keep their contact info, so I'm always just a text away."

In other words, the exploration and story have become the greatest form of connection in his life.  He's not bound by community; rather, he's riding the amusement park ride of relationships, and when it's time to move on, it's time to move.  

It's interesting isn't it.  

Relationships of old were based on long time ups and downs.
Relationships today are developed on stories made together, and then the choice of connection later on.
Relationships of old were based on commitment to encouraging in dark times, and celebrating in successes.  
Relationships today are mainly based on the next exciting adventure.  

I'm interested in knowing what you think about this.  

1.  Can we truly know and be known by others through our pop-social media culture? 

AND

2.  Can we truly connect with each other when our only frame of reference is based on the 'good times?'

What do you think? 

 

Choosing Humble, Leads

I've been watching from a distance as the Catholic Church has turned over three leaders in my lifetime.  From Pope John Paul, to Pope Benedict, and the newly elected Pope Francis, the Catholics have certainly been moving in the last 10 years.  

I didn't grow up Catholic.
I have many Catholic Friends.  
I've taught in Catholic Schools and Youth Groups.  

And one of my deepest respects for the Catholic Church is the long held liturgy of reverence and respect for the person of God.  Every priest I've had the honor of interacting with has a humble heart for the things of God.  

I saw this picture of Pope Francis on the web, and did my own reading of the newly elected leader.  I don't know about you, but I rarely see leaders of any organization willing to prostrate their 'rightful' leadership and bow to washing the feet of their members.  

In fact, today I rarely see the bright ray of humility grace many of our religious leaders, so this picture popped off my computer screen this morning with much interest.  What's going on here?  

Many of us have read the account of Jesus' washing the feet of His disciples (John 13), and it can often be looked over as a story told in Sunday School, but can you imagine?

Imagine God's Son being sent from heaven to bow before fishermen.
Imagine the Creator of the Universe willing to bow His power at the feet of Tax collectors.  
Imagine what it must have been like to know the man who fed 5,000 people, healed the sick, and gave hope to the hopeless; was willing to perform one of the dirtiest deeds of the day.  

When I saw Pope Francis' picture washing people's feet, I was inspired to know more.  This leaders who now is in charge of nearly 1 Billion people on the planet has taken a humble view of his own paritioners.  Interestingly enough, the picture alone tells us a message of "togetherness," a place I think is unique in the Christian faith.  

Although we all endure different circumstances and a variety of decisions, we're all on this Journey to Understand who God is, and How we can interact on the planet together.  

I don't know about you, but when I see leaders choosing the path of humility, it causes something to rise in my own heart to follow.  When leaders choose the path of arrogance or celebrity, it makes me cringe with cynicism.  

I am encourage by Pope Francis this morning.  I know the church has MAJOR issues to deal with, but this may be the beginning of someone wiling to come to the table of togetherness to find real answers to difficult questions.  

Thank you today for this image.   

 

Choices...Choices...Choices...

I was at a drive through fast food restaurant the other day. As we pulled up, I looked back at the 7 kids I had in the car.  "Ok guys, What do you want?"  and I waited...

Silence.

The voice over the loud speaker came on, "Go ahead and order when you're ready..."

Silence.  

Then in a rush of noise, all 7 kids shouted at the same time, "Dad, I want a ..."

I couldn't help but laugh out loud.  The guy on the other end of the speaker laughed. "Wow, you got an army in there?" he asked.

"Nope, just the Braner kids." I laughed again.

We ended up getting everybody something to eat, and drove down the road to our destination.  But as I was driving, I started thinking about how we learn to choose at such an early age.  

Here in America, our lives are full of choices:

Our T.V.'s have thousands of choices for channels, but we can only really watch one. 
If a restaurant doesn't have thousands of choices for food, we go to another seeking more variety.  But let's be honest, we can only choose one something to eat.  
Our schools have choices of classes.  When I signed my son up for High School, I was amazed at the different classes he could choose.  One class was called 'Outdoor Literature and Fly Fishing.'  Can you imagine going to a high school that offered something like that?  
Our clothing stores sprawl for hundreds of thousands of square feet to display thousands of choices of items to wear.  

Our culture adds choice on top of choice where we are forced to make decisions almost every second of the day.  

And then I started thinking...

Not long ago, I was in Saudi Arabia talking with a group of Arabs talking about the necessity of understanding your faith in the face of so many choices.  A large Arab man came up to me after my talk and said, "There are only really three religions in the world.  Jews, Christians, and Muslims."  

I left the meeting thinking, "Are you serious?  Only three?  My post graduate work is in Philosophy of Religion, and I'm pretty sure I read about more than three."

But after I drove through the fast food joint the other day, it hit me.

The West is different than the Middle East.  

The Choices we have at our restaurants metaphorically symbolize how many people see faith.  
If you want a little spice, you choose _________.
If you want a little bland, you choose _________.
If you want a little sweet, you go with ________.
And in a plural world, it all makes sense.  

But what of what is TRUE?
What of Common Good?
What of a place where we can point to the beginning of the cosmos, the first breath of humanity, and the natural order of things around us?  Why so many choices? (of course, I'm leaving my atheist friends on the outside of this conversation.  I apologize, but for the sake of the article, bare with me.)

Choices..Choices..Choices...We all have to choose.  

The Constitution is a choice.  'I get to say  Whatever I want to say, no matter the consequence.'
The Law is a choice.  'I get to obey the laws I want to obey.  The one's I don't agree with, well...'
Faith is a choice. ' I get  to believe in what I want to believe.  As if God is just waiting for us to choose.'

This morning here on the Journey I wish to put this lifestyle to a test.  If you you choose to believe God does not exist, and He does; is it really a choice?  
If you choose to believe in a religion you made up, what kind of choice is that? Is it real or less-real than the place of beginning?

Choices...Choices..Choices...

We all have choices today.  Some might call that "Free Will." I think it's the most beautiful part, and the most frustrating part of being human.  We all have a choice.  Choose this day, who you will serve.  (Joshua 24:15)

 

 

A Reason to Celebrate

This week, I've been overwhelmed by the people who choose to support what we do in Colorado at KIVU. I've literally taken calls from all over the world. Parents are saying things like, "You helped my kid know who they are and what they believe in." Staff e-mails started piling up touting a community of people like they've never seen before. One particular e-mail told a story of her University Religion class the the University.

Evidently there was an atheist professor at a large state school in Oklahoma who asked the class to do a paper on the most influential people in the student's development years. This particular student named Jamie Jo and I as her most influential mentors in life.

I'm telling you, if you've never read an e-mail like that before, it brings you to your knees in humility to think you can really have THAT kind of impact on someone's life.

One of the most recent e-mails I received from a former High School student was probably the biggest surprise I've heard in a long time.

Harry and Gabe came to the Colorado camp around 2005, and they quickly built a reputation of being AWESOME!! Funny, exciting, and willing to talk about any kind of issue; the boys were the type of teenagers that make the world a great place.

I got an e-mail from Harry this week and he told me he had graduated from the University, fell in love with an incredible lady, and was working on an engineering group that helped quadruple the amount of natural gas in Israel. "Andy, I'll never forget my time in Colorado, my crash course in Apologetics and Worldview, and how God met me there. My time in Colorado continues to influence the direction my life takes."

I just couldn't help but tear up and think, "Yep!! God, you do amazing things."

It's so fun to walk with teenagers who are trying to formulate their own life perspective while trying to navigate the hardest times in life.

It's a sacred honor to lead a University Staff who are also trying to polish off their goals in life as they are people who are longing to be something in the world.

And, it's such a privilege to walk with Fathers and Mothers to help lock arms and raise teenagers in their homes.

It's been a moving week for me, and I'd just like to shout out to all my friends who are saying so many wonderful things over the web.

If you'd like to learn about the community we are developing at KIVU, don't hesitate to jump over to our facebook community at http://www.facebook.com/campkivu; or you can see our newest alumni site at http://www.kivukonnect.com.

Thank you guys so much for making my life so special!! I'm honored to have been a part of yours to this point.

Check out my PluggedIn Online Interview

For the last decade, I've relied heavily on the opinions of others to help understand culture and where we are most influenced.   Focus on the Family has provided an incredible resource for those of us who want different viewpoints concerning movies, music, and general pop culture.  Plugged In Online has been a fascinating resource for me to see pop culture through expert eyes.  

Today I have the unique opportunity to speak with Bob Smithouser about Teenagers and Loneliness in popculture.  The podcast starts with a review of the new G.I. Joe movie released recently, and then we talk together about helping Teenagers.  Be sure to click on the link below and look for podcast #196.  

CLICK HERE TO GO TO PLUGGED IN ONLINE and the Podcast #196

Have a Great Day today!! And thanks for your continued support of The Journey

 

 

The @Bible, @markburnettTV, and @braner...A new way of thinking

I must admit, when I heard Mark Burnett was behind the creation of the 5 week mini-series to tell the story of the Bible, I was pretty skeptical.  I watched as all the Celebrity Christians started to tweet to watch The Bible when it appeared on the History Channel, and my pessimistic nature came to full froth.  

Surely this was some grand marketing scheme to sell T.V.  After all, Mr. Burnett is one of the most successful television creators of all time.  And now, I thought, "we were going to be subject to another "cheesy" version of the Bible."  I knew Christians would rally behind it, just because it was called The Bible.  (Let's be honest, we haven't been known as a tribe of creative geniuses in the last decade.)  I was afraid Mr. Burnett was giving ammo to my Atheist friends who once again would call into question the viability of a 2000 year old book critical it would in any way relate to our world today.

I even watched the first episode, and on a whim tweeted some snarky comment about how all the people looked like White people speaking perfect Queen's English.  (I really am sorry about that Mark.)

And here's where it gets interesting...

Last Sunday night, the Braner Party of 7 was sitting around the living room looking for something to wind down Easter Sunday.  I reached for the remote, and The Voice was on.  Usually, the family is interested in hearing new music, and voting on who is the best audition, but ALL my kids said, 'Dad isn't the Bible finale on tonight?  Turn it to The Bible."  I was SHOCKED!  

My kids are 14, 11, 9, 8, and 5, and all of them were really excited to  watch the last chapter of the mini-series.  I sat in amazement as they started asking questions about chronology of the Bible, purpose of the Resurrection, and finally the message Paul was tasked to take to the Gentiles.  

Well, I stand corrected.  I owe Mr. Burnett, and Ms. Downey a huge apology.  The production was incredible.  Instead of being someone ashamed to explain the Bible to my Atheist friends, I found myself excited to show certain chapters of the Bible through the eyes of this new way of thinking.  

The section where Peter was all alone and called to the Centurion spoke deeply to my soul.  He was called to explain the faith to Kings in the face of uncertainty, and I must be honest; I've been in that place more than once in the last year.  

In any event, I just wanted to take a little time to say thanks.  Thanks to @markburnetttv and all those who were involved in the creation of the Bible Experience.  I, @braner, apologize for my pessimistic first outlook.  I look forward to exploring the chapters I missed, and am proud of seeing someone willing to push the conversation to the public square.  With a world continuing to retreat from spiritual formation, we need creative forces like this to bring the discourse to the water cooler, the public square, and the normal times of conversations among friends.  The Bible Experience has afforded that chance to talk about God and not be weird.    

Today the Bible comes out on Blue Ray and DVD.  If you have a chance, pick it up and see how interesting the producers flew through several thousand years of story line.  As usual, the book is better than the movie, but this time; it's awfully close.   

The KIVU Gap Year in the Philippines

If you've followed the Journey for a while, you're certainly aware of The KIVU Gap Year.  This program is a way High School Graduates are able to see the world, network with some of the largest organizations in the world, and work on their own spiritual/vocational development.  From September to April, our students are working hard to find out what gifts God has given them, so when they enter the University, they're ready to hit the ground running.  

This month, The KIVU Gap Year is in the Philippines.  They are working with the International Care Ministries of the Philippines, and learning SO MUCH about how the world is working.  ICM works with the poorest of the poor in the Philippines, given them new ways of thinking about Healthcare, Micro-Finance, Education, Development, and all around the spiritual development of the community.  I foresee ICM being one of the largest global Non-government Organizations in the world in the next decade, and The KIVU Gap Year kids are getting to be a part of the growth from the ground up.  

Since September The KIVU Gap Year Students have been in Denver, Haiti, Rwanda, India, Tunisia, and now Southeast Asia.  What a great opportunity to hone the skills they were created for.  As of today 100% of The KIVU Gap Year students have gone on to the University, made Connections with Some of the most High Profile Global Leaders, and have a unique view of their own gifts and talents most University Freshman don't ever discover.  

In a world where extended adolescence is becoming more the normal, I've watched mid 20's and early 30 somethings struggle to find "what it is I want to do with my life."  There's a cloud hanging on the potential of our emerging adults, because education is changing.  To be able to sit with developers in Denver, or ask questions about emerging business practices in Africa, or be in the middle of discovering how to put together a global organization are opportunities few have access to.  

I'm convinced more than ever, The KIVU Gap Year is becoming a necessity for high school students to realize their own potential, connect with the world in real time, and discover what their particular gift is to partner in an ever shrinking world.  

If you are looking for a way to discover your potential.
If you're longing to explore the world through the context of experiential education.
If you are looking to improve a resume, network with global leaders, or you simply have an interest in business, social work, health care, micro-finance, or Global Leadership...

The KIVU Gap Year is worth taking a look at.  

If you want more information, feel free to look through our videos, our testimonies, or just follow the students as they finish out the 2012-2013 school year. http://www.kivugapyear.com   We are excited to see where these students will go, and we're thrilled to have a new class gearing up for the 2013-2014 year with The KIVU Gap Year.   

Are You Fighting Allergies? Hi-Health has some help for us.

A change of seasons, for example, winter to spring may not be exactly a walk in the park for most folks, who long to enjoy the outdoors.  This could signal the start of allergies. Sneezing, wheezing, runny nose, and itchy, watery, red eyes -- these are just some of the symptoms that more than 35 million Americans face each year as the pollen from trees, grass, flowers, and plants makes it way into the air.

 

When you have allergies you are looking for something to relieve your symptoms ASAP! Some of us grab the usual OTC allergy remedies with unwanted side-effects; drowsiness, over drying, racing heart, etc…Some of us call  on natural remedies  to the rescue without the unwanted side-effects.

 

Hi-Health ,  over 20 years ago ,  created a formula called AL-10 for those suffering from seasonal allergies. It is a combination of herbs and other nutrients to calm the immune system. One important ingredient found in the AL-10 formula is Butterbur. In one study, published in the British Medical Journal, a group of Swiss researchers showed that butterbur was effective in controlling symptoms of hay fever -- without the traditional symptom of drowsiness that sometimes occurs. AL-10 has a companion product called AL-10 Booster which is recommended for those suffering from multiple allergy symptoms, especially, those experiencing drainage that leads to excessive coughing. You can find AL-10 with the Al-10 Booster at www.hihealth.com along with other information regarding natural remedies for allergies. Lastly, take into consideration reducing and/or eliminating dairy, corn, soy and wheat from your diet. These common foods seem to create an allergic response in some individuals and could aggravate allergies creating more mucous.  Limiting time outside when pollen counts are high, especially in the morning and evening , can be helpful as well.